my story and questions

[DeAth_St4r]

why can pakie dudes have more than 1 wife and what happens to them in hell if they abandon the first wife?

i grew up with a white dad
me maam remarried after her pakie guy left
no fucker supported my maam from the muslim community
why the fuck should i listen to any of them now for being a good muslim?
what fucks me off is when my maam was struggling before she met my dad
no fucking fanny helped her only my dad and he was white
community hated my maam for marrying him
wht fucker helped her hey?
the guy she first married has a new family
my brother the dickhead whose older has that fanny as his dad
in 15 years we never saw my brothers dad
my dad whose white raised us both
least he was loyal to my maam not a fucking sellout!

[Parisienne]

U misunderstood me.Ok.im opening my PMS again.do mesage me when u come online.
Im not gona say much on that post no more.

[Parisienne]

I nver said ud go to hell cause ur dads white?
I nver said ud go to hell.i try explaning u things.wat u tell me is : Religion is shite.u dnt blive in that shite.i hve nothg against ur dad.nd dnt mke me sound Racist.cause im not.
U hate yr desi Family,im paki too, dsnt mean tht i m like them n think that them.

[Parisienne]

Originally Posted by IsmaBabesz'Ox

I Agreeee ...
Iffyy You Maybe Half White, That Dunt Mean You Go To Hell Cuz At Dee End Of The Day, If Your Doing What You Thhink Is Rite, What In Your Mynd Counts As Good Deeds, Then Inshallah You Will Go To Heaven ...
No1 Can Say To Youu That You'll End Up In Hell/Heaven Because f Your Colour

Thats true n i did say that to him too.
But dissing religion n god over n over again dnt tke u no where.Either.

[Parisienne]

I tried talking to him , being nice n all ask him wat he kept saying in return ?

[DeAth_St4r]

Originally Posted by shahrazad

I am very sorry about what happend to your mom !
Inshallah she is ok now !

This is my answer to your question:
a person doesnt go to heaven or hell because his parents are muslims or non muslims !

You go to Heaven or Hell according to YOUR deeds JUST yours !

maam is ok now
after my step brothers dad left she was in a mess
she had no job or income
relz never helped
she moved here from pak when she married that dik
took her while to get motivated and find work til she met my dad
when she was struggling no of her relz helped her
they demanded my dad convert to islam
he didnt, they were not happy with that
took some years for things to calm down
my dad still hasnt converted
me maam aint religous but when she round family she acts like she is
my step brother does all the islam things
when relz cum over they act all religous trying to rub it in her face

[DeAth_St4r]

Originally Posted by KALKI

- IS EVERY WHITE PERSON A RACIST OR FROM THE BNP?

NO! BUT WHEN I WAS GROWING UP AND A RANDOM WHITE PERSON WOULD CALL/SHOUT AT ME:

"OI PAKI" OR SAY "PAKIE GO HOME" - I NEVER JUDGED EVERY WHITE GUY AS A HATER...

IN FACT I WOULD THINK "WHAT A DUMB IDIOT, I'M NOT EVEN PAKISTANI, AND HIS JUDGING ME"

THEN I REALISED THAT WHETHER I WAS PAKISTAN OR INDIAN...

THE RACIST GUY WOULD ONLY SEE EVERY BROWN GUY AS A PAKI....

WHETHER HE WAS ABUSIVE TOWARDS PAKISTANIS OR ME, HE WAS STILL BEING ABUSIVE...STILL SWEARING...

THAT RACIST GUY IS JUDGING "EVERY BROWN GUY"...

HIS THOUGHT IS LIMITED...DOES THAT MAKE HIM RACIST OR JUST PLAIN STUPID??? I WONDER....

AT THE END OF THE DAY NOT EVERY GUY IS AN ASSHOLE...

IF YOU MOM (with respect) HATED EVERY GUY AFTER BEING TREATED THE WAY SHE WAS...WOULD SHE HAVE MET YOUR DAD?

NO!

SHE WOULD HAVE GONE THROUGH LIFE HATING ALL MEN AFTER HER FIRST EXPERIENCE...BUT SHE WENT ON WITH LIFE AND HAD YOU...

THE GUY AND THE COMMUNITY WHO DID YOUR FAMILY WRONG ARE 2 BLAME....
NOT RELIGION...

IF THEY TRULY FOLLOWED RELIGION CORRECTLY THEY WOULD HAVE TREATED YOUR FAMILY CORRECTLY...

EVEN IF TODAY SOMEONE STILL JUDGES YOU...JUST REMIND YOURSELF..THAT THEY ARE IN NOT POSITION 2 JUDGE YOU...

SO WHAT IF THEY READ MORE THAN YOU...IT DOES NOT MAKE THEM PERFECT...

THEY CAN HELP 2 GUIDE YOU, BUT NOT JUDGE OR SLANDER YOU....

"HATE THE WRITER NOT THE PEN"

WHEN A PERSON PICKS UP A PEN AND WRITES NONSENSE...DOES THE PEN HAVE THE AUTHORITY 2 SAY:

"PLEASE DONT WRITE HATE SPEACH WITH ME"

NO! THE PEN IS JUST A TOOL

THE POINT I'M MAKING IS DONT JUDGE EVERYONE UNDER ONE LIGHT AND DONT HOLD RELIGION RESPONSIBLE FOR A PERSONS STUPIDTY...

I DONT FOLLOW ISLAM..SO I'M NOT TRYING 2 TELL YOU 2 FOLLOW ANYTHING...

WHETHER YOU BELIEVE IN GOD OR NOT IT'S YOUR CHOICE...

ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE THAT...IF SOMEONE CHATS RUBBISH ABOUT YOU GOING 2 HELL OR SUFFERING FOR NOT BEING WHO YOU ARE...

YOU THEN NEED 2 ASK YOURSELF WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN DOING AS A HUMAN BEING....

YOU CAN GO THROUGH LIFE "NOT BELIEVING IN GOD" AND STILL END UP FINE AS LONG AS YOU HAVE RESPECT FOR OTHERS AROUND YOU..

FORGET ABOUT RELIGION FOR A MOMENT AND JUST THINK ABOUT ONE THING...

NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS 2 YOU...

OR NO MATTER HOW "LOST" YOU FEEL REGARDING YOUR ETHICAL BACKGROUND...

THE BRIGHTSIDE IS:

YOUR MOM RE-MARRIED AND MET SOMEONE SHE LIKES...

SHE MET YOUR DAD ...AND HIS BEEN THERE FOR BOTH OF YOU

IF YOUR STEP BROTHERS DAD NEVER LEFT/CHEATED HOW WOULD YOUR MOM HAVE EVER KNOWN WHAT HE WOULD BE LIKE?

SHE WOULD HAVE ONLY SUFFERED AS TIME WENT ON...BEING LIED TO...


AND FINALLY...

IF YOU HAVE TIME...READ THIS POST...SOME OF THE THINGS YOU SAY AND DO HAVE SIMILARITIES....

......AND THIS POST/VIDEO HERE

ALSO KEEP IN MIND THAT THE FORUM IS A PLACE 2 SHARE THOUGHTS N IDEAS...

WHETHER WERE RIGHT OR WRONG ...WE ALL HAVE THE RIGHT 2 EXPRESS WHAT WE WANT...WITHOUT SOUNDING VINDICTIVE

dude too much to read haha
i feel what saying yo.. thanks
i hate being fucking judged
when i say my name is irfan
first thing dudes ask s "are you muslim"
when im with my dad they think wtf he has a typical white name
when i say yes they start chatting safe safe when they talk about islam religion dang i dont wannna know
then they get moody or act fykd up
my life my choice why shove it down my face
i want to live my life how i choose not read some imaginary books i dont believe in
i never met these dudes in them books why should i believe what they write???
different dudes pray to different gods round the world
everyone fighting over ther own god ..why give a shite
i appreciate what yew saying
i daint hate that tp girl she cute i aint muslim enough ..only by name
my maam is happy now
being judge by relz is a shite feeling
i joined asian site coz i was curious after seeing the videos

[shahz]

Originally Posted by Sh4rp_Sh00ter

maam is ok now
after my step brothers dad left she was in a mess
she had no job or income
relz never helped
she moved here from pak when she married that dik
took her while to get motivated and find work til she met my dad
when she was struggling no of her relz helped her
they demanded my dad convert to islam
he didnt, they were not happy with that
took some years for things to calm down
my dad still hasnt converted
me maam aint religous but when she round family she acts like she is
my step brother does all the islam things
when relz cum over they act all religous trying to rub it in her face

Your mom has gone through alot !
I believe you have inner anger towards your mom's family !because they didnt help/took care of her when she was in need !

Originally Posted by Sh4rp_Sh00ter

why can pakie dudes have more than 1 wife

Muslim men can have more than 1 wife ! ONLY if they can take care of them properly ! Only if he CAN treat them EQUALLY !Which is a BIG responsibility!

[BabyLeo]

couldnt be bothered to read replies please excuse me

Im from a mixed race background(Mom white dad muslim)

they didnt stay together after she had me and the bro!!
yes she didnt get help from muslim community but she coped and remarried, my dad then remarried!!

Anyway its not just muslims or "pakis" that do it it happens to every race dont matter what you believe in theres always someone out there shittin on there family!!

Luckily my dad was kinda around for us(I didnt see him for 7 yrs) intill he passed away i resent him for what he did to my mom but do i blame all muslims? NO cuz his wife came to england when he passed and none of the muslims that didnt help ma mom helped her it was jst his choice of "friends" not the muslim community!!

and now his wife and ma mom are great friends infact she is buyin my house(few doors from ma mom) and ma mom couldnt be more happier!!

[DeAth_St4r]

Originally Posted by shahrazad

Your mom has gone through alot !
I believe you have inner anger towards your mom's family !because they didnt help/took care of her when she was in need !

Muslim men can have more than 1 wife ! ONLY if they can take care of them properly ! Only if he CAN treat them EQUALLY !Which is a BIG responsibility!

i am angry when they chat shite
all they do is telling me to go mosque or how to be better muslim
not act like a goraraa
i should join and be part of the cimmunity
wtf when needed their help they didnt help
why now???
why bother now with them
when maams relz come down they talk about this and that about islam
i dont believe in god
good muslim does this good muslims does that
guy that married my maan was muslim
he didnt do good shite at all
why cant these dicks understnd that

[DeAth_St4r]

Originally Posted by BabyLeo

couldnt be bothered to read replies please excuse me

Im from a mixed race background(Mom white dad muslim)

they didnt stay together after she had me and the bro!!
yes she didnt get help from muslim community but she coped and remarried, my dad then remarried!!

Anyway its not just muslims or "pakis" that do it it happens to every race dont matter what you believe in theres always someone out there shittin on there family!!

Luckily my dad was kinda around for us(I didnt see him for 7 yrs) intill he passed away i resent him for what he did to my mom but do i blame all muslims? NO cuz his wife came to england when he passed and none of the muslims that didnt help ma mom helped her it was jst his choice of "friends" not the muslim community!!

and now his wife and ma mom are great friends infact she is buyin my house(few doors from ma mom) and ma mom couldnt be more happier!!

dude i know what yew saying
not blaming everyone
relz and community are the fuckups
when yew was growing up
didnt yew get dudes tying to covince yew to follow this an do that
making yew feel guilty
how old was yew when your dad passed away?
do yew have a muslim or english name?